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Friday
Sep182015

and then there's laughter

Over here I'm in that space of climbing a somewhat steep learning curve with a few aspects of my business while trying to find a rhythm now that Jon and Ellie are back to school while also processing the news we received earlier this month that we don't have a lot of time left with our sweet golden Millie. And, you know, just being human in the midst of it all. Diving into these topics isn't actually what I want to talk about today (that will come); rather, I want to talk about one huge self-care move I'm making that's helping me right now. 

And that self-care move? Laughter.

If you've been around here a while, you know I'm a bit obsessed with lip syncing. As in there was that one time I recorded myself lip syncing "Jolene" by Dolly Parton and put the video up on the internet. As in having lip sync parties is something we do at my retreats now. For real. As in watching videos of Jimmy Fallon and guests lip syncing delight me to the tips of my toes.

And last week, while I was navigating this stuff over here, a dear frind texted me the link to Ellen Degeneres and Jimmy Fallon's lip sync battle first thing in the morning. After I finished up a few phone calls, I pressed play and in a few moments, I noticed that I was smiling so big my cheeks were starting to hurt.

When it was over, it was like I'd relaxed into myself again. I felt a lightness inside and around me. And laughter and connection and joy were the cause.

So I settled in for more. And over the last week I've been taking a little time each day to get my laugh on.

I watched Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee. The Trevor Noah episode was brilliant - I laughed and my world view was flipped on it's head. (Seriously.) 

I watched clips from Stephen Colbert's new show.

I watched Kevin Hart on The Tonight Show and laughed until I cried over his Jay Z story. (You might not, but something about the way he tells that story just made me laugh. I'm. Still. Laughing.)

I rewatched Amy Schumer doing just about anything.

I watched Stevie Wonder sing (and maybe teared up while laughing).

And each day, for just a little while at least, I was grounded in the awesome that is deep, real laughter.

Sometimes when you're standing on an edge in your life, when you're deep in the learning or even in the grief, it helps to invite in laughter to remind yourself that the light is always there. 

Maybe call up that friend who always has the best stories to tell. Or ask your dad to tell you that one story that makes you laugh every time. Or invite that friend for coffee who is the person you can be your most ridiculous self with. 

Or spend your lunch break, like I've been doing lately, with Jerry Seinfeld or Stephen Colbert or Amy Schumer.

Laughter can bring you back to center honey. Choosing to laugh isn't about not acknowledging the tough stuff. No. It's about inviting in the light so the tough stuff doesn't feel so lonely. It's about standing with others on the common ground that laughter gives us.

What I find again and again is that comedians are the truth tellers of our time. They have their finger on the pulse of the absurd, of the challenging, and even of the truth of grief. I actually think that there's a real chance you'll feel deeply seen in the midst of whatever you find yourself experiencing when you take a few moments to spend some time with a comedian or two.

An invitation: Now tell me, what makes you laugh in your corner of the world? An author, a show, a person in your life? I'd love to know. Please share in the comments.

Reader Comments (4)

By proxy, most of those things that make YOU laugh, are things making me laugh... You are my go to friend for sharing great links, and getting great videos to watch from you. What's making me laugh? These videos. Amy Schumer ALWAYS. Jimmy Fallon ALWAYS (insert heart eyed emoji now). A certain little girl asking to go to Menchies with me after school (swoon). My husband doing this hilarious thing he's done for years where he acts like a robot/machine when he comes in to kiss me, or when he holds Chloe pup. Sweet parents, great friends, adorable kiddos I work with every day. And just the absurdity that I get to live this amazing life. <3 And friend pickles, of course.

September 18, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterMandy

It's embarrassing to admit, but those videos online of cats falling off things or jumping at things or being scared by things, those always make me laugh until I cry. I also loved (and miss) Jon Stewart and David Letterman. (I've yet to check out Stephen Colbert. Honestly, I don't stay up so late these days, LOL.)

But the most laughter here? Most of it comes from me and my girls. Over the years, I have found that commenting on the absurdity of a situation is often the best way to deal with it. So, I comment on their silliness and they laugh and laugh. I laugh at myself and we all laugh and laugh.

This is such a good reminder, Liz. Thank you so much for putting it out there. Just what I needed going into the weekend. Here's to the laughter!

September 18, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterSiobhan Wolf

hi

September 19, 2015 | Unregistered Commentermccart

Have you watched the video of the German? Guys who drink the helium beer. Watch it. I Shared it on Facebook a couple of days ago. Laughed so hard at them laughing.

September 20, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterVirginia

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