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Sunday
Sep102006

on a warm summer's eve {the idea that might become a reality}

If you have been reading my blog for a while, you know that I love Kenny Rogers and his music. In March, I wrote a post that detailed a history of how his music has impacted my life. Since that post (and the fact that for about four months his twenty greatest hits and the Indigo Girls were the only music on my iTunes on my computer – until Jon gave me my Nano for my birthday), I have listened to his music over and over while I am working and writing. A few weeks ago I downloaded another album (the one the Bee Gees produced, Eyes that See in the Dark) and have been singing it several times a week. My current favorite is “This Woman.”

Last month, we decided we were going to visit my family for Thanksgiving. Around here, I start playing Christmas music the weekend after Thanksgiving. Because, well, why would you not? I mean you only can really listen to it for a few weeks out of the year. One of my favorite CDs to listen to is Once Upon a Christmas with Kenny Rogers and Dolly Parton. They had a Christmas special on in the 80s that went with this album. Did you see it? So good.

There is a song on the album called “A Christmas to Remember.” It’s about how the two people singing planned on spending a Christmas alone in Tahoe but ended up having a love affair with one another. “You made this a Christmas to remember. Spring time feelings in the middle of December. Beneath the mistletoe, you kissed me warm and tender.” I remember that even as a fifth grader I was hopeful about finding such romance when I was older. There is also the ultra-serious song “Once Upon a Christmas,” that tells the story of Jesus’ birth and Kenny narrates part of the song. My family wasn’t very religious but the seriousness of the story of a young couple trying to find a place where they would be safe resonated with me. I don't think I have ever shared this next story with anyone. In fifth grade, my aunt and my cousin (actually the one who just got married in Durango) were both very ill. My memory tells me that we were worried one of them might die, but that might be more the active imagination of a serious young girl talking. What I do remember is praying every time I heard this song. Praying so hard I would almost cry that god wouldn’t take my mom’s sister from her or my cousin who, at the time, I thought of like a sister (she and my brother are the same age. I thought of her as like his twin in some way since they were born on the same day). I can remember being in the back of my parents' Lincoln Town Car praying and praying whenever that song would come on the CD player. Of course, it was always followed by the song “I Believe in Santa Claus” which can snap a person right out of such solemn thoughts, and it always did. They each recovered from their illnesses.

Last week, my dad mentioned that Kenny was going to be playing in my hometown the Friday after Thanksgiving. A Christmas show. He thought I might want to go with my mom and Jon to see the show. Yes. I. do. Bought the tickets right away!

Last Sunday, I was telling Jon about the show and how I haven’t seen Kenny in concert in almost twenty years. I was sharing that over the last few months I have realized that part of my connection to the music of Kenny Rogers is that it feels like it represents the best of my childhood. The memories associated with his music are all really good ones. And I said, “I wish I could tell him that.”

As I thought about this, I had this odd little thought that maybe I could ask my blogging community for advice on how to write to him and maybe even ideas for how I could meet him in person in November to tell him.

Then on Tuesday I had dinner with my fried Julia and I explained all of this to her. I said that I knew Kenny was going to be here on September 11th to play at the fair but that I wasn’t going but would be going to the concert in November. She said, “I know the woman who books the talent at the fair. Maybe I could ask her for an address where you could send a letter to him.” Aha!

On Wednesday, she called to say she was sending me an email but wanted to be on the phone with me when I received it. It said that her friend would be happy to hand my letter to Kenny’s manager if I mailed it in time for Monday’s show. Insert excitement and gratitude.

I spent part of the day Thursday writing a letter to Kenny Rogers. I printed out the blog post from March and enclosed it in the letter. I realized that it was more about letting him know that even though he doesn’t know me, he and his music have been part of my life, and I have realized that when someone has touched your life, you should tell that person. It isn’t just about being a fan and meeting someone but saying thank for being in my life.

And if all goes well, his manager will read it tomorrow and then hand it on to Kenny.

I am giggling with glee in my corner of the world and singing along with The Gambler.

We really can manifest magic in our lives.

Reader Comments (14)

oh this is so exciting for you. a big, big moment indeed. i wish you could be a fly on the wall when he reads it. he will be touched, i'm sure. i love that you are unabashedly crazy about kenny rogers.

September 10, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterkelly rae

That is so very cool - I love serendipity! Who knows - maybe your words will be exactly what he needs to hear right now, which would make the synchronicity even more serendipitous!

September 10, 2006 | Unregistered Commentertinker

sooo wonderful! I love it when things work like they've been meant to happen all along. You'll have to let us know if anything happens...

September 10, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterbrittany

yes, yes, magic is everywhere. good on you for writing the letter, i pray he gets to read it. i agree that when someone has such a magnificent inflence in your life, regardless of who they are, they should know about it.

September 10, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterleonie

You cutie pie. I can't wait to hear how this story turns out. How exciting!!

September 10, 2006 | Unregistered Commenteracumamakiki

Liz! How I have have YEARNED...NO, LISTEN. How I have Y-E-A-R-N-E-D for that last sentence.

That is POETRY to read coming from YOU LIZ.

Julia

P.S.
TEE HEE HEE!

September 10, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterJulia Ann White

Brilliant.....who knows what may come of this however small. the fact is that you did it. you wrote the letter. that's the important thing.

keep us posted!!!

xxx

September 11, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterMadeleine

sweetie, could you be any cuter? :- this is a lovely story - yay for Kenny! one of my fav karaoke songs to sing is Islands in the Stream.... unfortunately i don't sing it as good as him and dolly lol x

September 11, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterSusannah

isn't that funny?
our instructors for my
early childhood course
often used the phrase
"throw it out to the universe"
which meant talk about what
you want, what you covet,
what you wish to achieve,
what you desire
and it may come to you...

way to go on throwing it
out to the universe!
:)

September 11, 2006 | Unregistered Commentergkgirl

i'm giggling in glee too and i can't wait for an update!!!!

when you write about how his music has impacted you i hear my own words and thoughts about bruce springsteen's music so i definitely understand and honor his place in your life.

September 11, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterla vie en rose

I believe. I believe. I believe!
You just might touch him as much as he's touched you! You are magical!

September 11, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterJamie

you and this post are just cracking me up. we listened to a fair amount of kenny rogers when i was growing up in the early and mid seventies-my faves are "ruby", don't take your love to town and you picked a fine time to leave me lucille (or "lucille", but isn't it so much more fun to say the entire opening chorus line?). but i can't get the roasters episode of seinfeld out of my head when i think of him....
i think it is so wonderful that you are giving a letter to him to let him know how he impacted you. surely we all love to hear when we've made a difference in someone's life, i do believe this is the reason why we put our craft out there...hoping it will resonate with someone and comfort or cheer them.
you are the sweetest thing.

xoxo p

September 11, 2006 | Unregistered Commenterpinkcoyote

I've been lurking for a while, but this is the first time I've commented. And I'm catching up on a lot of blog reading after a very busy week so I'm kind of late on this one. I live in Atlanta and went to The University of Georgia in Athens. I saw Kenny Rogers on a couple of occasions around town as he had a farm in the area. Also, my grandfather went to high school with Kenny's ex-mother-in-law (Mary Ann/Marianne's mom - can't remember how she spelled her name) and they had one of their reunions at his farm. In addition, my dad is a professional photographer and took photos at his farm for something one time. I'm not sure if he still has that farm or not (I graduated from college quite a number of years ago) but it sure was nice!

September 17, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterSauntering Soul

What a wonderful story, Liz. I giggling gleefully right along side you.

September 17, 2006 | Unregistered CommenterWenda

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